Paul Newman – Did he harbor a secret?


Not many superstars begin their careers with an out and out ‘lemon’, but Paul Newman certainly did. After popping up in a dozen or so TV series between 1949 and 1954, when the television industry was still finding its feet, he landed the romantic lead in a sandals and togas drama called The Silver Chalice (1954). And it very nearly sunk his career there and then. Even his character’s name, Basil the sculptor, was an embarrassment. James Dean and his manager had already rejected the role because they considered the script to be rubbish. And it was. It was billed as, ‘The mightiest story of truth and temptation ever produced’. It wasn’t. During the shoot, Jimmy wandered over from the set of East of Eden to see how it was going, met Newman’s co-star Pier Angeli, and love apparently bloomed on the spot. But not for long. He was killed less than a year later and Pier was heartbroken. ‘Love died in a Porsche’, she told friends.

Pier Angeli and James Dean on the town

The Silver Chalice was the final film to be directed by Victor Saville, a man whose directing career had (somehow) lasted for 42 films, the best of them being South Riding (1938) and Green Dolphin Street (1947). This last effort forced him into retirement. It was that bad. In fact, when it was about to be shown on American TV nine years later, Newman took out ads in the Hollywood trades papers apologising for his inept performance in it, and warning viewers to steer clear of the thing at all costs. Not unexpectedly, the ads merely drew an inordinate number of viewers to tune in out of morbid curiosity. I have sat through The Silver Chalice from beginning to end, (I’m expecting my Victoria Cross in the mail at any moment), and believe me it is a hard slog, even the 115 minute cut version. The picture originally ran an insufferable 142 minutes! Trust me, if this film comes on TV again and you are contemplating watching it, try slamming your fingers in a kitchen draw for 115 minutes instead. You will have more fun. The good news, of course, is that Newman’s career was not still-born, and he went on to do some great things, none of which saw him within a thousand miles of a pair of sandals or a toga. Paul was not one of those guys who made the same mistake twice.

His second movie was much better. In fact it turned him into a star overnight. Once again James Dean was involved, or rather the ghost of James Dean, for he had been set to play Rocky Graziano in Somebody Up There Likes Me until his death in September 1955 necessitated a change of plans. Newman, you might be surprised to learn, was already 31 years old by then and a number of studio executives were against him inheriting the role. They felt he was too old for it. Of course, several of them still could not erase from their memories The Silver Chalice and his knobbly knees. They also thought he would not be believable portraying an Italian-American. Come to think of it, he looked about as Italian-American as Pat Boone, but his powerful performance managed to pull it off.

As Rocky Graziano in Somebody Up There Likes Me

Newman would enjoy an illustrious career lasting over fifty years. The year after he was given an Honorary Academy Award (1986) ‘in recognition of his many memorable and compelling screen performances and for his personal integrity and dedication to his craft’, he finally won an Oscar for real for The Color of Money. In all, he was nominated nine times for his acting, and once as a director for Rachel, Rachel (1968).

with Tom Cruise in The Color of Money

Newman was married twice and had six children, three to each wife. His second marriage, to actress Joanne Woodward, lasted 50 years until his death. It has since come to light that he was known to have affairs along the way, something that was never publicized to any great extent. His last known relationships were with Italian actress Sylva Koscina and Joan Crawford, both back in 1967. He also had a brief affair with Joan Collins in 1958 and Myrna Loy in 1960. Crawford, by the way, had slept with him a couple of times during his first marriage as well.

with Sylva Koscina in The Secret War of Harry Frigg

Newman was once asked if he had ever been tempted to be unfaithful to his wife Joanne Woodward, to which he famously replied, ‘Why go out for hamburger when you’ve got steak at home?’ The ever tactless Crawford sneered at his response: ‘What a clever thing to say, but how true is it? First, I think Woodward is hamburger, not steak. As for Paul, he dines out frequently and on the most succulent filet mignon, from what I hear.’ This is all according to writer Darwin Porter, the former next door neighbour of playwright Tennessee Williams and self-proclaimed friend and confidante of numerous show business figures big and small. His book has drawn a lot of comment and speculation, so it might be worth looking at it here. We can decide for ourselves how much (if any) of it is true.

actress Shelley Winters

Porter’s revelations appeared in one of his books in 2009 and caused quite a stir. For one thing, he claimed that Shelley Winters told him of having a threesome with Newman and Marlon Brando! Shelley passed on in 2006, so she (like Newman and Brando) can neither confirm nor deny his story. Indeed, Porter is careful not to include anyone still living in his tales, so how much of the following actually happened is for the reader to decide for his or herself. This is what Mr. Porter had to write about Paul Newman’s love life:

Robert Stack

young Marlon Brando

Newman’s first serious love affair allegedly took place while he was in the US Navy, and it was with future actor Robert Stack (Elliot Ness no less)! While at college Newman allegedly visited Marlon Brando backstage where they had a sexual encounter. There were female conquests as well. Darwin lists Marilyn Monroe, Grace Kelly, Peggy Lee, Judy Garland, Susan Hayward, Lana Turner, Natalie Wood, Vivien Leigh and Tallulah Bankhead. But it doesn’t end there. Early in his career, Porter claims, he also slept with Montgomery Clift, Steve McQueen and the future star of Hawaii 5-0, Jack Lord!

young Monty Clift

a young Steve McQueen

an equally young Jack Lord

According to Porter, Newman allegedly told his good friend Janice Rule that McQueen propositioned him on the set of Somebody Up There Likes Me, concluding the conversation by planting a very wet kiss on Newman’s lips. ‘I thought Newman was arrogant’, McQueen told Porter. ‘When I finally got him into bed, I taught him who the man was.’ Even so, both men were fierce rivals, McQueen turning down the Redford role in Butch Cassidy & the Sundance Kid (1969) because he refused to take second billing to Paul. Miss Rule allegedly told Porter that Newman had severe man crushes in Robert Wagner, Redford and Tom Cruise, but none were consummated.

Janice Rule

John Derek

Brandon de Wilde in Shane

and shortly before his death

Porter makes no bones about Newman’s bisexuality, claiming he also had passionate affairs with James Dean, Tony Perkins and Sal Mineo. There was also an intermittent affair with John Derek in the sixties and a three-year relationship with former child star Brandon de Wilde. He played the little boy in Shane, and would die young in a car accident in 1972. Porter’s allegations may all be true. But they may also be a load of hogwash. Since every affair he mentions involve participants who are no longer with us and, therefore, unable to dispute his information, I would prefer to reserve judgment until someone living confirms some aspect of his stories. Even his sources are all dead; Williams, McQueen, Rule and Winters. Convenient. Joanne Woodward would know, of course, but she seems most unlikely to dignify Mr. Porter’s book by commenting either way. Who could blame her?

with his wife of 50 years Joanne Woodward


  1. Back in the 1960’s they were called switch hitters.
    My husband lived in West Hollywood and had worked at auto dealers in the Valley. He said he met a guy who told him he was Robert Wagner’s lover. Also he said everyone knew Bruce Jenner and Alan Carr were lovers. He saw James Garner, Bill Cosby and Steve McQueen playing pool at Elmer Valentine’s house. Elmer was owner of the Whiskey A Go Go.

  2. Isnt it common knowledge that most “movie stars” went both ways? Debbie Reynolds, Joan Crawford, Katherine Hepburn (so masculine!) Newman seemed very effeminate. Like all of them. We were under the hollywood illusions, as usual. Cruise is with the head of scientology…..David M. Its common knowledge in the business. Can you imagine how upset the fans would be if they knew???

    • I believe that Nicole Kidman had to sign a non-disclosure form re their marriage when she and Tom divorced. Who knows what secrets she agreed not to discuss? Then again, maybe that was a Scientology standard divorce requirement? However, it would have been nice to have been a fly on the wall in their home at the time.

  3. Lived in a former British “colony” years ago where, as an American, I was “lectured” on how “you Americans”, mispronounce “sch.” The person went on to tell me how schedule should have the “shh” sound, not the “sk” sound, and then gave me a litany of words spelled with “sch…” which were mispronounced by Americans. I let this person blather on and on, as they puffed up their fine feathers. When finally the blathering stopped, I asked only one question, “Well, then why do you pronounce ‘school” with the ‘sk’ sound instead of the ‘shh…” sound?” Feathers flattened, no more blathering. Also learned why so many words have “extra” letters. When first developing the spelling of the language, those who were doing the gatherings were paid per/letter. The more letters added, the more you were paid. So, it was much to their advantage to have a more letters in words… so much for the extra letters in our language.

    • Well, we used to model ourselves on whatever England did, but since WW2 that has changed as we have become ‘Americanized’. Of course watching so many American movies and TV shows has been a monumental influence on our language both written and spoken. Being nearly 69 years old, I still call that stuff that makes my car run ‘petrol’, but my kids all call it ‘gas’.

    • Ha! That spelling thing drives me crazy. I am torn between spelling as I have all my life, the English way, and at the same time aware that most of my book sales (and site readers I imagine) are American. Personally, I prefer the American way because it is easier. I mean, why toss in a completely unncessary ‘u’ into ‘favourite’ or ‘harbour’ or ‘colour’,when all three words read and sound like ‘favorite’, ‘harbor’ and ‘color’? I love the English language, but it really does need re-vamping.

      I shall post part one of ‘My 50 favourite (favorite) movies tomorrow (Sunday). Thank you for your input.

  4. I’m glad to read that you question Darwin Porter. One of Porter’s
    criticisms is that he claims sources for his info, but fails to cite,
    and quotes supposedly “actual” conversations between lovers, etc.
    [Bogart, again, but probably other books as well.] My guess is that he
    receives info., and creates scenarios around this. Anyway, I find it
    tiresome, and don’t care to know all that stuff about most of the stars. Sometime, during the 50’s, or later? my mother told me that Rock Hudson had a “beard”, and did I know what that was? She explained. If she read it at the beauty parlor, it
    wasn’t a secret during that time.
    I gather that most reviewers of Porter, have read many, many of his

    • Personally, I could not care less about anyone’s sexual preferences, but those who purchase my books and listen to my radio interviews are apparently fascinated by it. Data I have known about for decades is news to a lot of fans who do not read as widely as I do, so I collect and collate what I believe is interesting (even titillating to some) and write about it or discuss it during my once a month radio spot. As for Rock Hudson, I distinctly recall being told by 9 year-olds in my class at school (in 1956) that he had boyfriends.The term ‘gay’ was not in use then – not in Australia anyway. I did not believe them at the time, but if that was being said in Fremantle, Western Australia way back then, I imagine it was common knowledge in Hollywood long before that.I quite enjoy unearthing details about movie stars that reveal them to be just like most ordinary folk. Nobody is perfect, yet studios went to a great deal of trouble to imbue their stars with an aura of perfection that they simply did not deserve. Acting, after all, is just a job like any other. The only difference is that a great many more of its practitioners are extraordinarily attractive men and women.

      I think I might post the first part of my ’50 Favourite Movies of All Time’ on Sunday. Do you think that might be of interest or not? I would appreciate your opinion, Sheila.

  5. You ought to read reviews from those who have read his two books on
    Bogart! Too much “mashed potatoes and gravy”, from selections I read
    on internet. I have theory that there may be some truth to what he
    writes He may attract those w/ more info. [gays] more comfortable talking w/ him, than so called main stream biographers.
    There’s no way to know w/ bios. I wish Bogart had written his

    • The studios had their publicity people churn out a load of codswallop about their stars, and they did so for about 60 years. Now we have all kinds of ordinary people involved in the industry during the studio system, who are writing their memoirs regarding those days. Some of these people are probably out to make a quick buck, and Darwin Porter may very well be guilty of that. However, he might also be telling the truth. I suppose what really happened lies somewhere between the two. One thing I am certain of, however, is that the studio rubbish was just that – rubbish.

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